The Real Deal
One day Jesus and his disciples were taking a shortcut from Judea to Galilee. As they were traveling, they went through Samaria, a place Jews normally tried to avoid. It was noon. They were hot and tired, so Jesus sat down by a well. A woman showed up by herself, in the heat of the day, to draw water. It’s obvious that she’s not part of the in-crowd in Sychar, or she would have come earlier in the day with all the other women. So, quite inappropriately, Jesus, a single rabbi, struck up a conversation with this woman.
I suggest you give the conversation a fresh reading from The Message (John 4:7-30, 39-42).
Jesus had every reason to avoid this woman. First, she was a woman. As a single man, he really shouldn’t have been having this private conversation with her. Second, she was a woman of ill repute – multiple marriages and now living with a man she wasn’t married to. Third, she was a Samaritan – racially and religiously off-limits. Yet none these things kept Jesus away from her. Jesus, who was perfect, didn’t think he was too good to talk to this woman, and yet sometimes we think certain people are beneath us and try to keep our distance from them. How dare we do that?
Yet, Jesus didn’t overwhelm this woman with challenges—whether to her religion or her lifestyle. He offered to put himself in her debt by asking for a drink. Jesus made himself vulnerable tot his woman. He admitted that he had a need that she could fill. She recognized his request immediately as an act of humility, and she was shocked by it. He was asking her, not ordering her. The way he spoke to her was not the way she was used to being spoken to, especially not by a Jew.
When we relate to people, especially to unbelievers, I wonder how we come across to them. Do we come across as though we have all the answers? Do we come across as if we are they priviledged and they are the underpriviledged? If we do, should we be surprised if they steer clear of us. Or do we recognize that we also need them, the way Jesus needed what this woman could offer him.
Of course, she also needed Jesus. And Jesus connects his need to her need. This woman was naturally suspicious when Jesus made himself vulnerable to her. She wasn’t used to be treated this way. Her answer is a little defensive (“You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?”), but Jesus uses her response to focus on what she needed to understand – she needed to know who she was talking to.
She needed someone who could offer her living water. Now, she was a little confused by what Jesus said. At first, she thought he was talking about water from an artesian well – a well that wasn’t so deep, where it wasn’t so hard to draw from. But Jesus was talking about something inside of her.
In chapter 7 (vs. 37-39), we’re going to hear Jesus say, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him.”
John goes on to explain, “By this he meant the Spirit, whom those who believed in him were later to receive. Up to that time the Spirit had not been given, since Jesus had not yet been glorified.”
Jesus offers this woman an inexhaustible supply of life — eternal life — a spring of life that is fed from within her by the eternal Spirit of God.
Then, rather abruptly, Jesus gets real personal, and the conversation gets a little awkward. He knows about her marital situation, so he brings the subject up, to let her know that he knows. But I don’t think he brings it up to condemn her. I think he brought it up so she would know that he knew all about her, but her past was not a barrier to his work in her life in the present. Notice that he doesn’t tell her that she’s got to go get her past straightened out before she could come back and talk to him.
We’ve made that mistake in the church sometimes. We’ve told people who need Jesus to go get their life straightened out without Jesus, and then maybe they can come back and meet Jesus. That’s not how Jesus dealt with people.
Since, Jesus knows all about her, she wants to change the subject, so she brings up the burning religious question between the Jews and the Samaritans. Have you ever had anyone do that? You try to talk to them about their soul, and they throw up something like instrumental music or the book of Revelation or something some televangelist said as a distraction? For this woman, the issue was, “ Where was the right place to worship?” Jesus says, “Technically, the Jews are right. But, you know, it doesn’t really matter any more.” It seems to me that she’s a little flustered when she says, “Well, when the Messiah comes, he’ll explain it all.”
So Jesus blows her away when he says, “I who speak to you am he.”
Suddenly, it all clicked for her, so she ran off to tell the other people in the town. But before she leaves, the disciples, who had been away buying food, come back and find Jesus with this woman – this Samaritan woman. They wonder why he was talking to her, but they don’t dare ask. Jesus doesn’t seem interested in the food, so they urge him to eat, so he tells them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.”
Humm. So somebody else must have brought him lunch. They didn’t get it. “My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work.”
I think it was about time that Jesus looks up and sees the woman leading the people of the town; they’re coming out to meet Jesus, with their white robes reflecting the hot, noonday sun that was shining down on them. So Jesus says to his disciples – you don’t have to wait four months until the grain is ready. Look at the fields now, they are ripe for harvest. Get ready to reap the benefits of the work that God has already been doing in their lives.
Recently, my wife and I finally got around to watching the movie “Fireproof.” I commend it to you with a little warning – if you want to keep your eyes dry, don’t watch it. The movie centers around a fireman and his wife who are having serious problems in their marriage. The fireman’s father is a Christian and so is one of the other firemen at the station. At one point one fireman makes fun of the Christian. But the guy who is having trouble in his marriage defends him. He says, “You may not agree with him, but you and I both know that he is the real deal.”
When this woman met Jesus, she knew that she had found the real deal. But why did the people in the town listen to her? They knew her past, they knew her sinfulness. But they were willing to get past all of that, because they knew that she was also the real deal. I lot of us fail to witness to others because we are very aware of our own sinfulness. But, you see, people aren’t looking for perfection from us, they don’t expect it. But what they can’t stand is hypocrisy. They are looking for the real deal. The people of Samaria found the real deal in Jesus, but they found it through this woman.
Just like this woman couldn’t hide her past from Jesus, we can never hide who we really are from God. And that’s good news, because he accepts and loves us, not because of, but in spite of, who we are. Since he already knows us, we have nothing to hide.
Jesus loves and accepts each one of us just like he loved and accepted this woman. And each of us has the potential to impact other people’s lives the way this woman did. But we can only have that impact if we are the real deal. I think that, between all of us, we know a lot of people who have already had God working in their lives, and God is asking us to go out and reap the harvest. But people are not going to be gathered if we, the harvesters, are not the real deal.